Welcome from your Intuition Queen.
In the 8th Episode of Intuitive Queens I am adding a King to the picture because I want to honour some of the many men that also, have decided to follow their call and are now living their purpose.
Today I am interviewing Jose Luis Ucar who is a public speaking and communication coach.
FINDING PURPOSE FROM PAIN
Jose discovered NLP while healing from his divorced.
One of the lowest points in his life that brought him to ask so many questions on how to move forward.
While healing and learning, Jose started applying the NLP techniques and discovered that, what he wanted to do was to help people.
He wanted to help people not to struggle in difficult moments of life, as was happening to him.
HOW YOUR VISION HAS A CHILD CAN BE A GUIDE TO YOUR PURPOSE
Jose tells us how as a child he was always passionate about other languages and communication.
That was one of the reasons why he went to Sweden to study when he was 16.
The beginning of his experience in Sweden was not easy but he held on to it because that, had always been a dream for him.
That persistence and patience allowed him to stay out of his comfort zone for a while and learn in the process.
That brought him to be able to present in Swedish and talk about his country to other foreign students. A big achievement for Jose and a dream come true.
WHAT ALMOST BREAKS US ACTUALLY, CAN MAKE US STRONGER, IF WE DECIDE TO
Jose talks about how he now sees his past and the painful divorce as a learning experience.
How deciding to do something to feel better, even if not exactly knowing how, brought him to find a new passion for life, a new direction and what is now his purpose.
Only with the power of the decision, things started to line up in a way that allowed Jose to go from confusion and pain, to passion and purpose.
LOSING CONNECTION WITH YOURSELF MEANS LOSING CONNECTION WITH EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE AROUND YOU
Connecting with people is a big and important topic for Jose.
He loves connecting with new people either for work or for his private life.
However, that wasn’t always the case.
He had to learn the value of connections the hard way.
Jose tells us how when he lost the connection with himself, he lost the connection with the world and with some of the people he had met years and years back.
That was the moment he didn’t know what to do.
BEING A GOOD COMMUNICATOR MEANS KNOWING AND UNDERSTAND YOURSELF FIRST
Jose is passionate about sharing his knowledge and helping people to communicate better and feel more confident.
He loves being at service and making sure he can connect to each of his clients.
Part of the NLP techniques is modelling a person that has the characteristics you want to improve in yourself, this is why Jose strive to be the best version of himself.
In this way he is not only able to share what he has learnt, but he also offers an in-person version of what his teachings are about, that you can learn from.
THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING CURIOUS
Jose talks about the importance of being curious and not have expectations.
His workshops are not only about public speaking but they are a real discovery of yourself. A way to become more aware of yourself and therefore communicate better and more effectively, understanding the audience you have in front of you. Learning from it.
To learn more about connection and communication, list to Jose’s full story on
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